We often think of burnout as a sign of weakness — that if we could just “push harder” or “manage time better,” we’d stop feeling so tired. But in their groundbreaking book Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle, sisters Emily Nagoski, PhD, and Amelia Nagoski, DMA, challenge that idea entirely. They show that burnout isn’t about doing too much — it’s about not completing the stress cycle.

We all have days when we feel tired — but emotional exhaustion runs deeper than just needing a nap. It’s that sense of feeling drained, detached, and disconnected from yourself or others, even when nothing seems “wrong.” For caregivers, therapists, teachers, or anyone who constantly shows up for others, this exhaustion may actually be emotional burnout or compassion fatigue — signs that your mind and body are asking for care, not just more endurance.

Relationships don’t need to be on the brink of disaster for couples therapy to be helpful. Often, it’s the subtle shifts in communication, connection, and emotional intimacy that signal it’s time to pause and reflect. Recognizing these early signs can prevent resentment, build stronger bonds, and help partners navigate challenges before they escalate.

Many individuals from Immigrant Asian family systems carry the weight of emotional patterns and traumas that span generations. This article explores what intergenerational trauma looks like, why you may feel guilt or confusion toward caregiving parents, and how therapy can be a powerful tool for healing. We highlight three foundational books—It Didn’t Start With You by Mark Wolynn, Will I Ever Be Good Enough? by Karyl McBride, and Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Pa