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What Is Attachment Theory & Therapy? Understanding Your Emotional Bonds and How Healing Happens
Attachment theory explains how our early relationships shape the way we connect with others as adults. Whether you struggle with trust, intimacy, or emotional regulation, understanding your attachment style can offer powerful insights. Therapy focused on attachment helps heal relational wounds and build healthier connections. At Your Story Counselling, we offer compassionate, trauma-informed therapy to support your unique attachment journey.
Judy Lui
4 days ago4 min read


Your Story Counselling Recognized Nationally for Excellence in Inclusive Mental Health Care
Your Story Counselling, a trauma-informed and culturally responsive psychotherapy clinic serving York Region and beyond, has been recognized on the national stage. Named a finalist in the 2024 RBC Canadian Women Entrepreneur Awards under the Micro-Business category, the clinic’s work in building accessible, affirming, and anti-oppressive mental health care is gaining long-overdue recognition. Learn how Your Story Counselling is changing how therapy is delivered—one story at a
Judy Lui
Jul 214 min read


Should I See a Therapist Online or In-Office? Understanding What’s Right for You
Not sure whether to book an in-person or online therapy session? You're not alone. The choice between virtual and in-office therapy depends on your comfort, access, and clinical needs. This article breaks down the benefits of each approach—and explains why choosing a local clinic like Your Story Counselling means you don’t have to choose just one.
Judy Lui
Jul 144 min read


The Three Types of Sex: Understanding Intimacy, Connection, & Pleasure
Sex isn’t just about physical connection—with our bodies, partners, or identity, it's layered. This updated guide explores three types of sex—relational, passionate, and solo/experiential—to help you understand your own needs and patterns. Learn how to foster intimacy, keep excitement alive, and feel good in your own skin. Therapy-trained insights included.
Judy Lui
Jul 94 min read


How to Find LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists in York Region
Finding an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist in York Region is essential for members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community seeking mental health care that is safe, inclusive, and culturally competent. This guide highlights how to find affirming clinicians, the values of Your Story Counselling’s anti-oppressive stance, and where to find community support through organizations like Rainbow Health Ontario, ACAS, AQUA, and Pflag York Region.
Judy Lui
Jul 74 min read


What is an MVA? What is HCAI? And How Can a Psychotherapist Help After a Motor Vehicle Accident?
Motor vehicle accidents (MVAs) can change your life in a split second—leaving not only physical injuries but also emotional trauma. In Ontario, those affected by MVAs may be eligible for mental health support under the Health Claims for Auto Insurance (HCAI) system. This explains what an MVA is, how HCAI works, and how therapy can support you through recovery. Your Story Counselling is an HCAI-approved provider and ready to help you navigate the psychological impact of an acc
Judy Lui
Jun 305 min read


ChatGPT and Therapy: Can AI Support Your Healing Journey?
Can ChatGPT Be Your Therapist?
Let's get this out of the way first: ChatGPT is not a therapist. It can't diagnose, hold space for trauma, or build a trusting relationship in the same way a trained clinician can. That said, AI, like ChatGPT, can be a valuable tool for self-help, mainly when used mindfully and ethically (not to mention the ecological and environmental consequences our world faces for utilizing AI).
Judy Lui
Jun 236 min read


What Is Self-Compassion, Really? + 3 Simple Ways to Practice It
What Is Self-Compassion?
Self-compassion is the act of treating yourself with the same kindness, support, and patience that you’d offer a friend. It’s especially important when life gets tough—whether you're navigating failure, emotional pain, or inner struggle.
Judy Lui
Jun 163 min read


3 Spring Self-Care Activities That Don’t Break the Bank (Plus One That Can Change Your Life)
Spring is the season of renewal—and what better time to take a deep breath, check in with yourself, and prioritize self-care? Contrary to popular belief, self-care doesn't have to be expensive. In fact, some of the most effective practices for your mental well-being are low-cost, accessible, and deeply nourishing.
Here are three budget-friendly self-care ideas to help you bloom this season—plus a bonus one that could transform your emotional health long-term.
Judy Lui
Jun 94 min read


Feeling Off This Summer? 5 Signs You Might Need More Than a Vacation
The sun is shining, the patios are open, and social calendars are filling up—but if you’re still feeling low, unmotivated, or disconnected, you’re not alone. Despite what the weather and social media might suggest, not everyone feels their best in summer. If you've been thinking, “Shouldn’t I be happier right now?”—this article is for you.
Sometimes, what we need isn't a vacation or a weekend away. Sometimes, it's something deeper: reflection, healing, and meaningful emotion
Judy Lui
Jun 24 min read


What Is Neurodivergence, Really? And Could It Apply to You?
The word “neurodivergent” is showing up more and more—in schools, workplaces, on social media—but what does it really mean? And how do you know if it applies to you? Whether you’re newly exploring the concept or have long suspected your brain works a little differently, this guide will help you understand neurodivergence and how therapy can support you.
Judy Lui
May 264 min read


ADHD in Relationships: When a Third Partner Is Invisible—but Powerful
When you're in a relationship, you're not just navigating the needs, emotions, and communication styles of two people—sometimes, there's a third invisible influence in the mix: ADHD.
Whether diagnosed or not, ADHD can play a powerful and often misunderstood role in intimate relationships. And when one or both partners are affected, it can feel like ADHD has pulled up a chair at the table, making itself part of every conversation, conflict, and connection.
Judy Lui
May 195 min read


ADHD in Women: The Hidden Struggle No One Talks About – And How Therapy Can Help
ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) is often seen as a childhood condition that mostly affects boys. But what about women? Many women with ADHD go undiagnosed for years—quietly struggling with overwhelm, anxiety, and self-doubt. If this sounds like you, you’re not alone—and there is support.
Judy Lui
May 124 min read


What is the Human Magnet Syndrome: the Magnetic draw towards unhealthy and toxic relationships
What is the Human Magnet Syndrome: the Magnetic draw towards unhealthy and toxic relationships
Judy Lui
Mar 264 min read


Neurodivergence & ADHD: How It Affects Women Differently and Ways to
ADHD in women is often overlooked, leading to struggles with overwhelm, emotions, and self-esteem. Learn how to navigate it with support.
Judy Lui
Mar 194 min read


Am I in an Abusive Relationship? How to Recognize the Signs and Seek Support
"Wondering if you're in an abusive relationship? Learn to recognize the signs, understand the impact, and explore support options today."
Judy Lui
Mar 144 min read


Understanding Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD): How It Affects Mental Well-Being and How Therapy Can Help
Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) is intense emotional pain from rejection. Learn how it impacts well-being & ways to navigate it with the
Judy Lui
Mar 64 min read


Discover 3 Unique Personality Quizzes Recommended by a Psychotherapist (No Buzzfeed!)
Discover 3 free online quizzes to boost self-awareness, improve communication, and enhance personal growth—fun tools for self-discovery!
Judy Lui
Feb 258 min read


The Healing Power of Music: Understanding Music Therapy and Music Psychotherapy
Explore the healing power of music therapy in Vaughan and Markham. Certified therapists use music to foster emotional growth and resilience.
Judy Lui
Feb 184 min read


Mandarin and Cantonese-Speaking Psychotherapists in York Region / 在约克地区寻找普通话/粤语(广东话)心理治疗师 / 在約克地區尋找普通話/粵語(廣東話)心理治療師
在Your Story Counselling,我们深知语言和文化理解是有效治疗的关键要素。因此,我们为约克地区多元社群提供普通话和粤语心理治疗服务。
Judy Lui
Feb 157 min read
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