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How to Find Affordable, Culturally Competent Therapy in Ontario and York Region
Accessing therapy that is both affordable and culturally sensitive can be challenging. This article explores options for low-cost therapy in Ontario and York Region, including directories like Healing in Colour, Althea Therapy, Open Path, and Affordable Therapy York Region. Learn tips for selecting a therapist, understanding supervision for student therapists, and questions to ask during consultations. Whether you’re seeking support for anxiety, depression, or trauma, cultura
Judy Lui
2 days ago5 min read
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Spotting Communication Red Flags in Relationships — A Guide Inspired by Gottman’s Research
Poor communication is one of the most common reasons couples seek therapy. In this article, we explore the key "red flags" in communication, based on renowned psychologist Dr. John Gottman’s research, including the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. We’ll also share how couples therapy can help address these patterns and build stronger, healthier relationships. If you’re seeking couples therapy in Markham or Vaughan, our team at Your Story Counselling is here to help.
Judy Lui
Aug 185 min read
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What Is Attachment Theory & Therapy? Understanding Your Emotional Bonds and How Healing Happens
Attachment theory explains how our early relationships shape the way we connect with others as adults. Whether you struggle with trust, intimacy, or emotional regulation, understanding your attachment style can offer powerful insights. Therapy focused on attachment helps heal relational wounds and build healthier connections. At Your Story Counselling, we offer compassionate, trauma-informed therapy to support your unique attachment journey.
Judy Lui
Jul 284 min read
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Your Story Counselling Recognized Nationally for Excellence in Inclusive Mental Health Care
Your Story Counselling, a trauma-informed and culturally responsive psychotherapy clinic serving York Region and beyond, has been recognized on the national stage. Named a finalist in the 2024 RBC Canadian Women Entrepreneur Awards under the Micro-Business category, the clinic’s work in building accessible, affirming, and anti-oppressive mental health care is gaining long-overdue recognition. Learn how Your Story Counselling is changing how therapy is delivered—one story at a
Judy Lui
Jul 214 min read
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The Three Types of Sex: Understanding Intimacy, Connection, & Pleasure
Sex isn’t just about physical connection—with our bodies, partners, or identity, it's layered. This updated guide explores three types of sex—relational, passionate, and solo/experiential—to help you understand your own needs and patterns. Learn how to foster intimacy, keep excitement alive, and feel good in your own skin. Therapy-trained insights included.
Judy Lui
Jul 94 min read
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How to Find LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists in York Region
Finding an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist in York Region is essential for members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community seeking mental health care that is safe, inclusive, and culturally competent. This guide highlights how to find affirming clinicians, the values of Your Story Counselling’s anti-oppressive stance, and where to find community support through organizations like Rainbow Health Ontario, ACAS, AQUA, and Pflag York Region.
Judy Lui
Jul 74 min read
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ADHD in Relationships: When a Third Partner Is Invisible—but Powerful
When you're in a relationship, you're not just navigating the needs, emotions, and communication styles of two people—sometimes, there's a third invisible influence in the mix: ADHD.
Whether diagnosed or not, ADHD can play a powerful and often misunderstood role in intimate relationships. And when one or both partners are affected, it can feel like ADHD has pulled up a chair at the table, making itself part of every conversation, conflict, and connection.
Judy Lui
May 195 min read
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Conflict-Free Holidays: How to manage Family Dynamics with Grace
Navigate holiday stress with grace! Learn tips to manage family dynamics, set boundaries, and create meaningful connections this season.
Judy Lui
Dec 12, 20243 min read
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Heal Your Holiday Connections: How CBT and Attachment Theory Can Transform Your Relationships
Discover how CBT and attachment theory can deepen your relationships this holiday season. Build trust, heal bonds, and connect meaningfully.
Judy Lui
Dec 4, 20244 min read
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How to Improve your relationship: Understanding through Attachment Styles
Relationships are central to our well-being, but they can also be one of the most challenging aspects of our lives. Have you ever...
Judy Lui
Nov 19, 20245 min read
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Moving in: How to grow intimacy when living together
"Moving in? Keep the spark alive by communicating openly, balancing personal space, and adding romance to daily routines for a strong bond."
Judy Lui
Nov 13, 20245 min read
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How to Build a Better Relationship with your Immigrant Parents
Whether you are a student, young adult, or starting your own family, here are some tips to help you build stronger, healthier relationships
Judy Lui
Aug 6, 20243 min read
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Beyond Pride Month: Continuing the Legacy of LGBTQ2+ Celebration and Support
As June and Pride Month come to a close, it's essential to remember that celebrating and embracing the LGBTQ2+ community should extend far
Judy Lui
Jul 2, 20243 min read
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How to Find a Therapist: Your First-Time Guide
Feeling the need to talk to someone? Here's how to get started with therapy in Ontario.
Judy Lui
Jun 7, 20245 min read
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Cracking the Code: Understanding Stonewalling and Signs of a Toxic Relationship
Let's unpack what stonewalling is, how it may be linked to toxicity or narcissism, and most importantly
Judy Lui
Apr 1, 20243 min read
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Navigating Relationship Storms: Identifying and Tackling Communication Red Flags - Insights from John Gottman
Learn about Gottman therapy's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and its antidotes in this article!
Judy Lui
Feb 7, 20247 min read
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Navigating the Post-Winter Holiday Blues: Therapeutic Tips for Strengthening Mental Health
If you're seeking ways to navigate this challenging period and bolster your mental well-being, consider these therapeutic suggestions.
Judy Lui
Dec 22, 20233 min read
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Identifying Relationship Red Flags: A Guide to the Four Horsemen of Communication
This article aims to help you navigate the world of relationship red flags by delving into Dr. John Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalyps
Judy Lui
Oct 30, 20236 min read
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